The Fi(ND)ing Motherhood Journal:
Reflections on Matrescence and Raising Neurodivergent Children
Welcome to The Fi(ND)ing Motherhood Journal — a collection of reflections, insights, and personal stories exploring the transformation of motherhood through the lens of matrescence. Here, I write about what it really means to raise neurodivergent and disabled children in a world that often misunderstands them — and us.
These pieces are adapted from the Fi(ND)ing Motherhood podcast, blending lived experience, research, and heart-led honesty to help you feel seen, grounded, and less alone on this journey. Whether you’re newly navigating a diagnosis or years into parenting a child with additional needs, you’ll find compassion, community, and calm here.
Changelings, Communication, and the Hidden Wisdom of Non-Speaking Children
What if the ancient changeling myths weren’t stories of fear, but of wonder — early attempts to describe the wisdom and mystery of children who see and communicate differently?
When Public Figures Get It Wrong
When public figures make harmful claims about autism, it doesn’t just make headlines — it makes heartbreak. It reopens wounds parents are still learning how to live with. In this deeply personal piece, I share what RFK Jr. and Mary Butler TD got wrong, how it impacts real families, and why we must protect our children not just with services, but with the stories we tell about them.